Friday, July 11, 2003

Yesterday was an odd day...a lot of questions were brought to mind...many still unanswered, burning in my heart for some kind of answer to fall upon. I guess I was looking forward to yesterday...from playing basketball w/johnny and also Arlyne's surprise birthday get-together...except for the studying, that's what got to me. But yea, people yesterday mixed into my thoughts quite often yesterday. I am looking at Johnny quite awkwardly because I don't know what to think about him. I admit, I kinda do like him...but then I don't wanna like him if he doesn't have any feelings towards me cuz he is the type of guy who befriends girls easily; he's just a nice guy in general. I guess u can say he's another "george": Friendly, teaser, nice, cute...a good ball player. hahaha yea, so I actually look at that now...I ran into someone after Arlyne's get together...I won't say who because the name may cause more drama than wanted or needed or even necessary. He got me thinking though...about why I'm letting loose a bit more this summer. Letting go of all the things that held me back during the year(s)...whichever u prefer to pertain this whole alleviation to. Yea, well, he got me realizing that I have made mistakes with him and our weary friendship...I wish I could take them back so that I wouldn't feel so awkward with him at times...I wish I didn't feel that way. I have trouble trying to forget that sometimes he can be as ignorant to feelings and attachments than others and at times that is what burns me. I wish I could say he is a good guy but sometimes he just isn't...but nonetheless, i will call him my friend. Yea, it was crazy cuz I was running across the street to get to the med plaza parking lot to get my car and go back home...then he calls me and asks me where I'm at and if I was wearing white shorts and a black n white top...haha apparently he saw me. But yea...let me tell u about the bball game between Johnny and I...so he came over about 2:10...I had gotten off work at around 1:30. I still can't believe I got off work early just to play ball w/him. BUt yea, It old him the night before that I didn't have a ball at my apt cuz I usually had borrowed my friends ball so he'd have to bring one. He came to my apt in his bball gear and I was wondering if he had his ball in his car...he kicked it at my apt for a while cuz I had my 2nd pass at 2:30...so yea, after I signed up I asked him where's the ball...he said he forgot it...???? haha soooo funny he didn't even bring his id or wallet. SO yea, we drove all the way back to like woodland hills or whereever he lived to go pick up his flat ball. We finally ended up playing ball at around like 5...I WON! I think he let me win though...but I guess that means he wanted to lose the bet. The bet was pretty hilarious cuz loser buys winner dinner...actually if I lost I would have had to make him dinner. BUt yea, also if I lost I'd have to call him daddy in front of everyone...if I won he'd have to say "Sheena, u are the goddess of basketball...I am not a worthy to be called a basketball player...." haha It was nice hearing him call me the goddess of basketball a couple of times. But yea, it was fun...we came back to my apt as I cooked up some food for dinner...then we went to the surprise bday party...it was funny...arlyne got the crap scared out of her. Francis and I were taking some shots before she got there...haha GO SOCIAL RECRUITMENT. Yea, francis chilled w/me by the pool for a bit and then johnny came...I was dipping my legs in the pool and I splashed johnny a lil...then francis...then francis kicked up hella water and I got drenched on my left side...*SAD*...haha well, yea, johnny fell asleep by the pool...when we switched apts, I took him back to my place so he can get his stuff and go. Yea, it was a nice night. Went back to Arlyne's apt to chill again...but I left early to study...and well, here I am...gotta go to class..LATEZ

Song of the moment: "where did our love go" keahiwai

Mood: scared about my quiz, excited about the retreat, confused by the rest of my life

Tuesday, July 08, 2003

I think there is only one person who understands what I am going through right now and that is Mai. I don't think I can tell Rose anything cuz she has her own shit to worry about...Aiz is not around...I don't know...the mixed emotions are back again. I don't know how to deal with it all. It's so strange cuz there has only been one guy that I've actually been attached to this past year...and I begged and prayed to God that I would get over it...that someone else would come in my life and make me realize that there are so many others that would be better for me. No one came around...now, it's like there's a couple of people showing interest and they actually make me happy and smile. One in particular actually gets me on a different level. But I'm not trying to make much of it...I mean I've only really seen him twice but I have been talking on the phone with him a lot lately. His random text msgs make me smile. I don't wanna admit that I sorta like him especially since I barely know him but I guess the quality of talking is a lost art and I find it nice to chat with people on the phone. Plus, he plays ball...hehe what a package. LoL Still, it doesn't stop my heart from falling back to old feelings...I pray to God that things will turn out alright...PLEEZ!

Song of the moment: "somewhere in between" Lifehouse

Mood: exhausted inside...

Sunday, July 06, 2003

You would think it would be easy to sit back and relax and just DO NOTHING...unfortunately for me that always leads to endless thinking. I'm still stuck in this weary position...it's annoying. I find that my life is being consumed again by these emotions that should no longer be here but they incessantly run loose through the hours and minutes...DAMN! So...I woke up this morning and made pancakes...didn't turn out so well. That stupid easy pancake maker, yea, is not so easy...i guess u gotta get use to it. I should have just stuck with the old fashion way. Next time...

Rose and I went out...bank, 3rd st., santa monica place, westside pavillion, albertsons, ross, savon...I didn't realize there was a color scheme that the children must stick to for the anniversary...ugh, GRAY!!! It's rather ugly on me...makes me realize how chubby my hips are...but yea, the funny thing is I haven't been able to find any gray dresses...the only one I found was this ugly summery dress kind that just made my boobs look big and my hips even bigger. I don't know what to do or get or blah...u know? This day was sort of a get away cuz last nite was just weird. I burst into tears cuz I'm feeling the feelings...I talked with Mai about it earlier...she can't believe I'm feeling that way STILL. I told her I know that I shouldn't be but u just can't help feeling what u feel...for whatever reasons they may be...Yea, I just don't know what to say right now. I sorta do like someone...he doesn't know it though...but it's unclear whether or not he likes me back...he seems like he does but he also seems like he doesn't. BLAH...the usual guy games. I guess we'll have to wait and see how this episode turns out...oh how I want it to turn out well...very well!!!

Mood: PLffT!